Monday, November 28, 2016

A Detour from Sailboat Mystic to Mystic Connecticut

We've been on a extended detour from Looping for the last three weeks. We left sailboat Mystic, in Columbus, Mississippi to visit family in Mystic, Connecticut for Thanksgiving.

Our trips to Connecticut are always busy and filled with visits to our favorite places. The weather was perfect for a hike at one of my most special spots of all, Bluff Point. I spent my childhood here, riding bikes or walking to the beach every day. I learned to swim at the town beach at Bluff Point. As I got older, I began to explore the trails and run the 3.6 mile loop around this beautiful coastal preserve every day that I could. I spent endless days searching the shoreline for sea glass and relaxing on the secluded quiet beach, jumping into the cove to cool off when it got too hot. Bluff Point was special to me before anyone else knew how special it was. I introduced this shoreline gem to many friends, including Dave. In 1987, he proposed to me at Bluff Point. We took our children there to search for blue crabs, rocks and shells. Bluff Point has free public access to a gorgeous shoreline. Standing atop the bluff you are treated to amazing views of Long Island Sound. There are endless hiking and mountain biking trails that meander through the thick woods. In the summer kayakers paddle down the Poquonnock River and through the coves nearby. We've spent a lot of time here and make a point to visit as often as possible.

Bluff Point Groton, Connecticut

Wooded path along the Bluff Point loop

Heart Shaped Shell

Heart Shaped Rock

Bluff Point Cove

The tree overlooking the cove

Afternoon sunshine over the cove

The timing for this visit allowed us to attend the 2nd annual memorial birthday bash for my high school friend, Bill Craig. These celebrations are always at Harp and Hound Pub in downtown Mystic. I met Billy in high school and reconnected back in 2010 when Dave and I were in Florida to run the Space Coast Marathon. Bill invited us to his 50th birthday party where we met his lovely family including a son and two daughters. Once we reconnected we stayed in touch. Billy was good about that. He valued his friends and he made every one of us feel special. He texted me and called me randomly and often. He became a part of my world; then he got sick. His death was devastating to all of us who love him. Celebrating his life with his family and friends is heartwarming. I sat with his mom, Twiggy. We shared our memories and our tears. Billy was one of the good guys! I am lucky to have been in his inner circle.

Dave, Beth & Bill 2010

Bill & Beth at Fish Lips, Port Canaveral

Beth & Twiggy Craig

Bill's beer & t-shirt

Harp & Hound Celebrating a great guy on his birthday!
We love you Billy!

We visited our friends Peter and Shelley who live in N. Stonington, Connecticut. We have fond memories of them over the years; parties, boating, picking blueberries and raspberries in their yard. They are life long friends and fellow sailors. Peter captained the boat we crewed in 1985 from Bermuda to Mystic. We had an epic journey on that voyage; complete with the storm of the century (we thought it was anyway). We still marvel that we survived it!

We took long walks at Napatree Point, which is near Misquamicut Beach, in Rhode Island. Recently made famous after Taylor Swift bought a home there. This popular coastal sand spit is a favorite for boaters and beach combers. We've been visiting Napatree for years, enjoying the solitude of the dunes and the vast beach. My sister and my nephew came along with us this time. We spent the afternoon searching for sea glass and playing catch football.

Kite Boarders at Napatree

Dave and Marc at Napatree

The vast Napatree Beach

Heart shaped rock at Napatree

I love you Mom ~ a message from Marc

Making Football Mannequins

A boy and his uncle on the Napatree jetty

Marc & Uncle Dave on the sand dunes at Napatree

On our way back from Napatree, Dave said he saw a garden of fire hydrants on Scenic A1 near Avondale. Intrigued, we turned around so we could see what he was talking about. Sure enough, the Watch Hill Fire Department had "gardens" of uniquely painted fire hydrants. My nephew Marc thought is was super cool and we all marveled at the collection.









We attended the Annual Mystic Holiday tree lighting and the Lighted Boat parade. Afterwards, we went to the Jealous Monk beer garden in Mystic Village. We really enjoyed this place, having a mini reunion of the old school gang, Yvette and Ray, Cheryl, Peggy, Claudine, Squeeky, and Michele. We look forward to our gatherings and we always make sure to get a photo together!

Group photo - Jealous Monk

I wish we'd gotten better photos of the lighted boats but didn't bring our tripod so my photos are more a fuzzy light show. The local newspapers have gorgeous shots though. Below is a like to the article.


Tomorrow we head back to Columbus, Mississippi. We'll reconnect with sailboat Mystic. Our next major goal is Mobile, Alabama. This detour has rejuvenated our souls with the love of family and friends. We are ready for the next chapter; the ocean, tides and currents!


Thursday, November 24, 2016

The Crazy Cat Lady

We are on a detour from our looping adventure. We spent eight days in New York City then took the Megabus North to spend Thanksgiving with our Connecticut family. 

My sister, Joyce, is a career-oriented, married, mother of three. She is well dressed, intelligent and compassionate. Joyce is also a Cat Lady. She's not your typical run of the mill cat lady, known for spinsterhood and an inability to sustain deep relationships. She's more of a crazy cat lady; the kind that just can't say "no" when confronted with a pitiful homeless cat or feral kitten. She's responsible, always taking these little creatures to the vet and puts out enormous amounts of money to ensure they survive and find a home. The truth is, many of them come to Joyce then never leave. Recently, we tried to count the number of cats that have passed through her house over the last 10 years. We came up with 20 but I'm certain that we haven't remembered them all.

Joyce the Crazy Cat Lady

The first adoption was back in the late 80's when Joyce was in college and found Ukey, (short for UCONN) in the barn on campus. She took this all white deaf kitten to her dorm room, (totally against the rules), and kept it there until she could bring it home.

Joyce had one cat that was a planned adoption. Twinks was a sweet kitty that came to my sister from Tennessee. Joyce heard about him from someone who knew someone who was looking for a home for a kitten in Tennessee. For the record, Joyce has a dog too. Her name is Minnie. She came from the Caribbean Island of Anguilla! There are no boundaries for a rescue with Joyce!

Minnie

Finster was a feral orange tabby that Joyce picked up off the side of the road. Finster was afraid of everyone and everything. He would only allow my niece near him but drove her crazy with his persistent attempts at sleeping on her head.

Twinks and Finster are both gone now but they lived long lives at my sister's house. During this time, a pitiful little white stray knocked on the back door and my mother let him in. They named him Abu. His medical needs cost my sister a chunk of money but he's still a member of the crazy cat lady family. Joyce says he belongs to our mom, so he doesn't count, but we all know she couldn't ever put him out. Without a doubt, he counts.

Over time, there was Dunkin and Donut who got their name because they were delivered to Joyce in a Dunkin Donuts box. Our uncle knew that Joyce would take care of them when he found them abandoned by their feral mother. They were tiny, one week old kittens. Dunkin did not survive but Donut was renamed Dory when I adopted her and took her back to Minnesota. She is the queen of our castle there.

Dory

Dory when she arrived at 1 week old

Dory at 6 weeks

Bonnie & Clyde, from the same litter, and Carl, from a later litter, all went to live with my niece. Clyde has anxiety issues and has to have special food! Huggy and Tubby, brothers, arrived in the last year or so. Huggy still lives with Joyce but Tubby went out one day and never returned.

Carl & Clyde

Tubby

Huggy

Joyce took in a litter of five grey kittens after adopting Huggy and Tubby. She managed to find homes for all five of them. It probably helped that she made sure they had their first shots and were vet checked; and, the fact that she abstained from naming this batch may have made it easier to let them go. Joyce's friends have asked where she finds all these kitties. I'm pretty sure they find HER!

One of Five Matching Kittens

Joyce has five felines in the house right now. Abu is the oldest and very shy. He keeps to himself and does not interact with the others. Huggy is a sweet young adult who is teaching the smaller kitties the way of the land. There are two 12 week old kittens Joyce named Lenny and Squiggy; adorable and playful, they fit right in with Huggy. The most recent addition is a tiny kitten referred to at the vet as YAC. YAC is about 6 weeks old. He was born outside to a feral mama. He has a bad eye. When Joyce got to the vet she noticed the paperwork referred to him as YAC. She thought it odd that the Vet would name her new kitten. When she asked about it they said that YAC stands for "Yet another cat".

Squiggy & Lenny

Did I mention that all of these rescues have issues of one kind or another. Whether it's 6 toes, 1 eye or no ear, they are cherished members of the "Joyce" litter. She tells us these cats are regal and direct descendants of Ernest Hemingway's six-toed cats!


We make fun of Joyce all the time about the cats she collects. She says she is looking for new homes for them but often they arrive and stay. I guess I understand how she feels about these vulnerable little creatures. Years ago, a feral cat was living outside of where I worked. My friend Joni would bring water and food every day so this cat didn't starve. I would make sure the kitty was fed when Joni was out of the office. Our boss found the food one day and asked us if we were feeding the feral cat. We looked at each other and then at him and said "Nope".

I've taken to the little guy referred to as YAC. I've started to call him Finn. Dave recognizes that look in my eye and reminds me that we can't take him back to the boat in Mississippi. Maybe this crazy cat lady thing runs in the family...

Joyce and a couple of her furry friends

UPDATE:  Only one day after publishing this post, Joyce brought home another sweet kitten. She named her Laverne!


Thursday, November 17, 2016

New York City Detour

November 8 - November 17, 2016

The drive to the Memphis Airport was an easy three hour trip. Everything is moving so fast. We've been living aboard Mystic, our Alberg 35, for two months and have forgotten about all the normal sounds and activity of the "real" world, off of the waterway. Our lives have been filled with new places, sounds and experiences but, in general, we have been moving at a much slower pace.

Sunset Aboard Mystic

We arrived in New York City on Election Day. The city is hectic as always, but there is a new tone today. We walked to the Javits Convention Center so Dave can take a look at the hall he'll be working in. We can't get there due to the police, tactical units and press. We have no idea what is going on but it's BIG. Finally, we learn that Hillary will be having her election rally here.

Street Politics in NYC

This detour from our sailing adventure has been a shock to us. We are overwhelmed by the constant stimulation of noise, activity, and aggression. When we are cruising, we meet both cruisers and locals. Everyone is delighted to explore each other's story. Here in New York, folks don't look you in the eye. As you walk down the crowded streets, someone is constantly shoving something in your face, cars are honking at each other and at pedestrians; and tourists are grabbing and pushing their way toward whatever catches their fancy. We are amazed at the cost of living here. Everything comes at a higher volume. I've always loved our trips to the Big Apple. This visit, my perspective is influenced by the simplicity that we came from, living aboard. It's a different view point!

Tower One

Our lifestyle on the waterway is very conservative. We have  little room for items that are not necessary. We buy what we think we can consume. We share what we have with the Loopers we meet. People ask us often, "What do you do all day? Don't you get bored? " It seems like we don't do much, but our days are busy and, at times, exhausting. Someone has to navigate. Someone has to watch for debris and Tows on the waterway. We both have a role in getting through the Locks & Dams, each lock through takes us a half hour or more to complete. We clean, we cook, and we "putz"! Dave does engine maintenance and I knit, crochet and write notes for our blog. We explore the towns we pass through whenever we can. We often anchor in remote places, alone, together! We listen to birds, coyotes, and owls. We stare at a star-filled sky, in wonder at just how many flickering lights fill the atmosphere when you are away from artificial light. We breathe deeply. We hear carp munch on our hull, a sound that drives many Loopers crazy but makes us laugh at the circle of life! We have a gadget that turns our computer into a television but can almost never get reception. Instead of TV, we listen to our wind-up solar radio that can almost always get public radio and great classic rock stations. Living aboard is not always easy but it is rewarding! It's everything we hoped for but nothing we prepared for.

We come to New York several times a year for Dave's work. We have places we visit that are "our" places, like McGarry's Irish bar. At McGarry's, our bartender, Patrick, is a familiar face. We love to sit at the bar and chat with him. Patrick is fascinated with our current lifestyle. We've asked ourselves many times since we began this journey, "What are we doing?" Patrick cleared this up for us when he commented recently, "Look at ya! You're living the life of Fooking Riley!"

McGarry's

Fall Colors in NYC

Hudson River View from the Skyline Greenway

The Skyline Greenway

Fall Yellow

Skyline Greenway Mural

Fall Colors

Patriotic construction

Veteran's Day Parade

Patriotic NYC

Reflection

Old Glory

Veteran's Day Parade 2016

US Veterans

Tuesday Night Sailing Club

Central Park

Bryant Park

Bryant Park Ice Rink

New York Nightlife

Columbus Circle

Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis Reservoir

Reservoir run

Pigeons in Central Park

Paddle Wheel Frame

Paddle Wheel

Central Park View

Trump Tower Dressed up for Holidays

Radio City Music Hall

New Yorker

Empire State Building

Dave on the Skyline Greenway

Beth on the Skyline Greenway

Art along the Skyline Greenway

Art Along the Skyline Greenway Zoe Leonard, 1992

Beth with Jacob Javits

Dave with Jacob Javits

Mannequin Sculpture

Hudson River Greenway Art 

Skyline Greenway Art

Central Park Reservoir Path