One thing that I know is certain; we cannot be certain that everything will work out as planned. In fact, it is best to expect life to do the opposite. On the loop, we learned quickly that other forces had a bigger influence on our plans than our desire to fulfill them. We learned to be patient; to listen and respond, act rather than react. It wasn't so much 'giving in' as it was learning to work with what we had. We gained nothing when we tried to force our plans and we often fell into experiences which we would have missed had we not stopped to listen to what life had in store for us. Loopers talk about the need to be flexible and spontaneous. This is out of necessity rather than choice. Any given day a schedule can be squashed by storms, wind, repairs, illness or any of many other obstacles. When you let go of what you've planned and adjust to what you are dealt, there is a comfort in the synergy that results. Instead of disappointment, you feel more like you are a part of the outcome; rather than a victim. These changes can be stressful and frustrating but have given us the opportunity to build our confidence and skills. It has also created some of our best memories on the Loop!
Green Turtle Bay with Looper Friends Scott & Rhonda Joiner, Henry & Mickey Krzemien |
Going through a lock with Tom and Paula on Life's TraVails |
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Mystic in St. Augustine |