One thing that I know is certain; we cannot be certain that everything will work out as planned. In fact, it is best to expect life to do the opposite. On the loop, we learned quickly that other forces had a bigger influence on our plans than our desire to fulfill them. We learned to be patient; to listen and respond, act rather than react. It wasn't so much 'giving in' as it was learning to work with what we had. We gained nothing when we tried to force our plans and we often fell into experiences which we would have missed had we not stopped to listen to what life had in store for us. Loopers talk about the need to be flexible and spontaneous. This is out of necessity rather than choice. Any given day a schedule can be squashed by storms, wind, repairs, illness or any of many other obstacles. When you let go of what you've planned and adjust to what you are dealt, there is a comfort in the synergy that results. Instead of disappointment, you feel more like you are a part of the outcome; rather than a victim. These changes can be stressful and frustrating but have given us the opportunity to build our confidence and skills. It has also created some of our best memories on the Loop!
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Green Turtle Bay with Looper Friends
Scott & Rhonda Joiner, Henry & Mickey Krzemien |
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Going through a lock with Tom and Paula on Life's TraVails |
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Making the Loop Sailors of Nations River System Often Stop in Columbus Along the Way By Isabelle Altman Columbus Dispatch
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Mystic sits in a big field at St. Augustine Marine Center. We were certain that we would return to our cruising adventure by October, but life took charge and our plans changed. This time, LIFE got in the way. Our new plan is to relaunch
Mystic in April of 2018. We may head south to Key West and we may head north to Connecticut. It's too far out to know for certain what is next for us. For now, we'll take care of the business that has put our journey on hold. Eventually things will come together and our next step will be apparent to us!
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Mystic in St. Augustine |
Sorry to learn of your change in plans. Life does have a way of inserting itself into the best laid plans. A little humbling at times. Your post has great words of advice to simply embrace what comes rather than to force things along. I trust things will get sorted out for you both so you can resume cruising. Hope our paths cross again.
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Dave & Karen, We are practicing patience! Our time on the water is not over! We'll be back and will keep a lookout for a chance encounter with the eyes behind RoadtripImages.com! You guys have had some great adventures since we last saw you! Let us know if you come through Minnesota!
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